If they can't handle your lows, they don't need to be around when things are great. Girls with depression, girls who are upset or sad= undateable? no. Dateable girls aren’t downers, they love life."
"Your outlook on life, your happiness factor. I am also tough and brave, care to mention that? "You are soft, you are gentle, you are a woman." Ok, now the man's test? Instead of being based on how attractive they are to girls (because the girl test is based on the authors' ideas of what makes a girl attractive), the boy test is based on how far you will go! It is based on sex! Like a girl needs to worry about a boy's opinion of her, but a boy simply needs to pay attention to his self-control? ugh! The implications of that are so offensive.Here are some other deeply disturbing ACTUAL QUOTES!: What happens if you follow these rules and get married? Is the guy going to go into shock because you aren't the timid, "perfect lady" he thought? Ugh! And the fact that it uses religion as a reason to promote sexism is horrible. I will say and do as I want, I am not going to put on an act or closely monitor myself to get a man. And the whole thing with mystery disgusts me. I can talk however much I want to and if he deserves me, he will listen and love me anyway. I've been in a loving relationship for two years now, and I have never had much trouble with boys. Practice thinking about him and take your eyes off yourself so much. There is plenty of time for him to get to know you. You’ve probably told him everything about you so why would he want to see you again? But it’s not too late. They are fine how they are! Guess what? This is my score on the Dateable test haha: It makes me very sad that young girls read this and think they need to change themselves in order for boys to like them. It is so sexist! The book is basically written in a way meant to control women and keep them in their place. This book makes me so angry I shake just thinking about it.
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